{"id":1081,"date":"2012-12-20T16:31:23","date_gmt":"2012-12-20T16:31:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/career-advice\/?p=1081"},"modified":"2019-10-15T14:07:51","modified_gmt":"2019-10-15T21:07:51","slug":"3-powerful-steps-to-a-resilient-job-search","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/3-powerful-steps-to-a-resilient-job-search\/","title":{"rendered":"3+ Powerful Steps to a Resilient Job Search"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Let\u2019s level out the playing field: I too have conducted a desperate job hunt. Fourteen years ago I found myself a single mom and fired from a job that, although no dream job, kept three human (and one canine) bellies fed.<\/p>\n

(That was before I hit my stride as a writer, and that detour likely led me to the writing path \u2026 but that\u2019s a topic for another post!)<\/p>\n

I recall bleak days that stretched into nine months. That was also before I discovered a passion for career management. Ah, had I known then what I know now! I would have been re-employed much faster.<\/p>\n

The importance of resilience is this: desperation is a deal-breaker in the job search. Desperation may lead the job hunter to an activity-numbing, depression-induced paralysis, and desperation detracts from a stellar interview.<\/p>\n

Here are a few pointers for staying resilient throughout the job search.<\/p>\n

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  1. Do set a few goals because without an end destination you are less likely to reach it! Rather than \u201cI want a job\u201d figure out which job, where, with which potential employers and start working towards that goal. Rather than a nine-month haphazard job search you absolutely can attain a job after a focused three month search.<\/li>\n
  2. Failure must be reframed from a self-defeating negative to a simple \u201cwell that was one more thing that didn\u2019t work \u2026 no need to try that again.\u201d How you perceive<\/span> things has a tremendous impact on your mood and reaction, which in turn impacts how others perceive you \u2013 either as a mature or needy hire.<\/li>\n
  3. Don\u2019t give into feelings of victimization. If you\u2019ve not heard back after an interview, it\u2019s not about you; it\u2019s about the interviewer not following through. You cannot control other people\u2019s actions, but you MUST control your own thought patterns.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    These three deal with key concepts: your control of your thoughts \u2013 perception, attitude and emotions, and your level of activity. You are responsible for your own happiness. How you reach that \u2013 or if you fail to reach it \u2013 is in your hands alone.<\/p>\n

    Many fear failure, but without action, you fail by default. At least with some kind of action, you either succeed to some degree, or chalk it up to another \u201cfailure,\u201d as in \u201ctried it, it didn\u2019t work; onward.\u201d<\/p>\n

    To add more fuel to your resilience, here are a few tips for how to gear up for the sprint toward the finish line:<\/p>\n

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    1. Chunk and Define \u2013 a job hunt requires many strategies like sourcing jobs to apply to, customizing the resume and cover (which may include searching out names as well), networking, \u201cworking\u201d LinkedIn and other professional media sites and so much more! Assign chunks of time, committing two hours on Monday to \u201ca\u201d and three hours on Wednesday to \u201cb,\u201d and so on. Chunking tasks and assigning time limits are time management techniques for getting work done.<\/li>\n
    2. Reward yourself \u2013 for sticking to your commitments and timetable. Apparently humans respond well to variety<\/em>in rewards, so consider creating a \u201cjob jar\u201d of a different kind \u2013 one that rewards you for job searching! On slips of paper write rewards that are affordable and totally wonderful to you! For example, I would write the following:\n
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      1. Buy a book<\/li>\n
      2. Spend $20 at the bead store<\/li>\n
      3. Take an afternoon off and go for a long nature walk<\/li>\n
      4. Go out for Pad Thai<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        And if you need a little more oomph to get you going, consider that perfection is a myth \u2013 we all struggle and learn; take one day at a time rather than project failure into the future; focus on the process rather than getting tied up in knots over controlling the outcome; don\u2019t compare yourself to others, especially when those \u201cothers\u201d have had success where you have not (resentment is an emotion that is damaging to one\u2019s health!); and above all, be kind in your thoughts to yourself. No negative self-talk beating you up!<\/p>\n

        If you need a professional\u2019s help to get started on the right foot, I would be pleased to be of service. Onward!<\/p>\n

        – Stephanie Clark<\/a> survived the many twists and turns of employment and discovered her dream job as a resume writer. Today, Stephanie commits her workdays to \u201ctaking resumes from lacklustre to sparkling\u201d!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        Let\u2019s level out the playing field: I too have conducted a desperate job hunt. Fourteen years ago I found myself a single mom and fired from a job that, although no dream job, kept three human (and one canine) bellies fed. (That was before I hit my stride as a writer, and that detour likely […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1081"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6343,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081\/revisions\/6343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1081"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1081"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bcjobs.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1081"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}